What Does 'Pick Me' Mean?
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Someone, usually a woman in the slang's original usage, who puts down their own gender or distances themselves from it to seem more appealing to a romantic audience.
REAL-WORLD EXAMPLE
"She spent the whole date saying she's 'not like other girls.' Certified pick me behavior."
LORE & ORIGIN
Named from the dynamic of visibly trying to be chosen ('pick me') by exaggerating how different you are from other people in your demographic.
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